The author of UntiedEscape will finally “tie the knot” so lets forget
about escaping for now as this is
all about getting married.
I will not begin with cheesiness and mushiness because I am
quite not a fan or maybe I wanted to right about the real thing. Getting
married to someone you really love is something you should decide carefully. Be
it a short or long relationship, long distance or he is just a block away from
your neighbourhood it doesn’t matter because you will live your entire life
with him or her.
My story may be boring to some and kind of amusing to
others. It all started January 16, 2002 when I finally decided to say I love
you. It may not go well at first because it seems just like “what to do” stage, but we are still together for quite, ohh
I do not want to count anymore so can you do the math?, by the way please
subtract a year on your count because we broke up years back. Yeah, right… that long. J
Our life together is not perfect but it was fun, all because
we share the same stuffs and understand each other. It’s all not about finding
the perfect guy or the best guy but it should be the “your match”. The perfect
guy for you is not a perfect guy for me, you do not want to change him or her
for you but maybe some improvements will help to keep you both going. You will
know why.
Some common questions I had from my friends are how do we
manage to keep it that long? Well, I really do not know, maybe I do not give up
easily, and so he is, and we just keep on going back to each other after all
the trials and heartaches. There are a lot of flaws and challenges along that
journey that maybe just make us realize that we are for each other. Maybe I am
so patient, considerate, understanding, and so he is. Those words are such
“gas-gas” words already but that’s true. You also need to listen and give space
to your partner. Impulsiveness, may cause damage so better think carefully
before doing something stupid. Well I’m not a love guru but this is all came
from experience. Any imperfections
should be patch up by love and encouragement to keep it right. You do not want
to push your partner to be picture-perfect for you but to guide him eventually
in realizing what you mean and will soon adjust himself because he loves you.
That’s I guess the key of our long and crazy love. You do not tolerate but you
help each other. And remember, trust gives a big role here, and your life
should not evolve only to him, you enjoy the life around your family, friends
and the people around. And by the way, you put God with you in every way, and
thank Him every morning because He is your match maker.
Ok so be it, I encourage questions if you’re still not
convinced, anyway I asked him to read this first and agree before posting so I
am sure we are on the same thinking. Or else I can ctrl + a then delete. :D
Our long relationship plus another long engagement will be made
official on December 20, 2014.
